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Choosing You

 Choosing You

When was the last time you heard yourself crying out?

When was the last time you chose yourself over others? 

I bet you are diving into your thoughts rn...

You don't always stand a chance to choose yourself?

You always do...there are plenty of chances and opportunities...

But you fail to do so...Why... because you don't want to hurt the people you love?

The fault is not that you are lending love and stretching hands to bring them up, but you are losing yourself in that process? It is a fault.

How hard you went on yourself to please the ones that don't pay any attention to the slightest change you are going through?


How hard you went begging for love, freedom, and the minimal care you deserve?

You can't beg people to stand by you...you cant...

you can't force them to hustle with you...

sometimes it is good to isolate yourself from toxic and manipulative characteristics...

No one asked you to tolerate all these negative traits in the people who don't contribute a single penny when you are in a distress...

The ones who deserve chance after chances are the ones who stood for you and beside you...in every situation....The one who tries to fix every broken piece of you and the ones who share their Netflix id....No second thoughts about it...

Sometimes you just have to choose yourself over gaslighting, toxic, and even manipulative people ...Personal growth is your perfection...

No one has to know your private life...

No one has to know your achievements...

No one has to know your hustle...

As you glow in public...you also deserve to cry on that special one's shoulder and say...it is exhausting.... You deserve that too....

Saying No to certain people and cutting them off will nourish you... Choosing yourself is like a pest spray...you spray the crap out of every pest that trying to pull you down and wants to see you in the worst time...Don't hate them...just cut them off...you do have any good reason to waste your energy hating people...


Just to say...it is better to get rid of toxicity...to nourish yourself and flourish...

Surprisingly ... it's a part of your healthy lifestyle too...mentally...

Thank you for your precious time...hope you had a good read...

                                                                                      Steveea


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