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Second chance maybe

There is always a way unless you don't open up...keeping to yourself will not solve things in your relationship...I mean in whatever relationship you have....the right people will understand the core problem...and why we reacted or responded that way....they will accept your flaws....I know sometimes you might have made unforgivable mistakes...and you fear confessing in the relationship....sometimes you feel like they will never accept...sometimes you feel they might leave you...sometime your relationship might feel so comfortable of them having the good perception towards you....you don't want to speak up because of that particular fear....fear of something wrong you have committed....so much of guilt might like up your heart...fear will gulp you down...but having someone to listen and to stand in your shoes is rare...you fear about how you are going to spoil the relationship....it might end up somewhere...but the person truly love you....they will do whatever it takes to stay with you....it might take 2 or 3 days of sulking....crying... unacceptance...but...coming back to the same point....right people will somehow return back in your embrace....


Here is a few way how to confess...

1. Sit and think
 Sitting and reflecting what you have made and why u have made it...
And think of the possible consequences...
And have some hope that they will understand...
Because certainly if they truly want you...they will do anything it takes to keep you....there will be forgiveness...there will be acceptance...there will be compassion...
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2. Build the courage...
Maybe at that moment you guys will have a fun chat....or u guys will be happy....just build the guts to text it out...and put the phone away....text them whenever it feels right...
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3. Don't be discouraged or regret
You have certainly built the courage to tell them...you opened up...you have been straight up....be proud of your honesty...
I will guarantee that...the satisfaction of coming out of that guilt will be worth it....
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4. Prepare for the consequesces
No matter how hard it gets...stay strong of the words they might throw to you on anger....the act of responding towards your honesty....the true ones will find a way to stay with you...
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5. Please don't take advantage of them
If they have forgiven you for what you have done towards them....grab the chance and be loyal all the way....always thank them for the second chance...because not many gets it ...
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6. Pray
If they responded negatively..they walk down on you....stay calm and pray....
Ask God to take your guilt away...ask Jesus for the forgiveness ...He had paid the price for you....nothing to be guilty about anymore....I would love to emphasize...that....right people will stay and find a way to sort things out....even if things get complicated....


When someone accepts your flaws...
And decide to sort things out...and stay with you no matter what....
They are a something that you should treasure and value all you life....🌼🌼🌼

That's all for now....
I'm writing out of my heart...
I'm sorry if I said anything wrong ...
Right people stay...
There is an unfailing love that you always want...that is always ready to Forgive you...
Just believe....
     

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