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Decisions

 

Deciding is a major part of life... growing out of the box might seem uncomfortable for some people....It is certainly hard to ignore people's comments towards you...it may be criticism...judgement...or discrimination....but how long will their comments effect you...how long will you bare the pain...?or how long will you take to heal yourself out of It this? your decision matters at the end....


Procrastinate your works or neglect your passion just because of that one jackass on the street dislike you...just gonna curl up and cry over the comment he/she passed?

you are not gonna prove to anyone...no one has the quality to validate your worth...they are gonna talk trash ...because they don't know you...they did not see your efforts...they did not know your intentions....they did not see your passion....their comments are just nothing...as long as you know how much effort ...love and passion you put in ...whatever they say actually does not mean anything....



Decisions....

Realize that what they say is not the voice of the entire world ..

it's just a minor opinion of someone...do not make it gigantic in your mind...take it lightly with a smile...thinking that...whatever they say you ignore it by knowing how much effort you put in something or realizing your self worth...

taking decisions for your personal growths are something to be proud of...but sometimes i know you face problems because of people or the community...

a little secret nobody will tell you...as you love yourself you will become stronger and your thoughts will change looking on to the necessary part of life...decide for your own...you can have consultation about your decisions with people...but never let them decide for you as you grow mature ....

 have pleasant thoughts in the morning...manifesting good affirmations will strengthen self love...

if you know what you are doing...you know the consequences...you know everything about it...other's opinion doesn't matter....right people around you will know why u decide so...every decision you make will either succeed or u learn something from it...


stay on track... focus on yourself....enlarge your mindset and the way of thinking...don/t take decisions to compete with one another...or to please people...or to show off your wealth or whatever great u might own...remain silent and do your own thing...contribute to the society...as you have responsibilities...the only people you have to please is your parents...and the ones who is right beside you .... supporting and strengthening... 

it is normal to get angry and stressed out by what people react towards your decisions...specifically , when u already know and have confident that you will do the best and succeed...they stop you from doing it...

Eventually...they end up using the same strategies...they end up taking the same decision...they end up doing the same thing as you...but look how you let yourself go... you are sitting there quitting your plans and decisions because THEY SAID.... sorry to be rude... but  hope you realize it...your decisions don't need any validation from people.... if you wanna know....go and get your feet in the mud and figure it out yourself...you certainly cant trust the community... and people's words blindly....God and Good parents knows what is right for you...apart from that...IT'S YOU...you know yourself better....


stay or just get back on track... it's never too late for your personal growth... Opportunities are right there....💞



































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