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TOXIC PEOPLE

TOXIC...TOXIC...TOXIC....

The toxic relationships Daily

Frustration was in her silence...she remain silent over the things she was feeling hurt about...
Her words are unheard...Her thoughts are messing up...but she chose to stay quiet ...
He kept on pushing her down with words...break her confidence...she learned to fix her back...she did her very best to succeed...but she was stuck with that one toxic person...she couldn't walk away...the love she had for him was too deep that she decided to give her all in all to make him happy...what she gained through all these? the jealousy of her success...if a partner is proud of you...your achievements...they encourage you...they do not envy your success...it's a really healthy relationship going on there...but what if they envy your progress..? do not understand your workload...often complain...judge your work and the way you are doing it...it's toxic...it can make you give up....these kind of people are just loving themselves more than they love you...they are considered selfish...they are...this might not only be tied up in couple relationships...you can see these in friendships and families as well...if anything toxic is gonna pull you down...you isolate yourself... anyone who will envy your achievements and could still love you...this is crap...they love themselves more...eliminate them...you don't need anything toxic...break the silence ...raise your voice if you have been inflicted too many times along the way....ignore them ...don't fall for their tactics...don not store personal vengeance towards them...you forgive ..but...don't fall in it again...




TOXIC PEOPLE TRAITS


Great Manipulators

In the 1930s, women who were depressed were sent to institutes and went through a redundant procedure called Smile Therapy, in which the woman would stare at herself in the mirror with a fake smile attached to her face. The doctors believed that if the woman saw herself smiling, she'd be happy. Ding Dong, they were wrong!

These type of people manipulate you to get their wants and needs fulfilled...
They are sweet talkers...asking and manipulating has differences...don't get it wrong...when people ask you once or twice considering your opinion is common...but if you are manipulated ...they are literally brainwashing you to accomplish their personal purpose...they don't consider your thoughts...or your opinion about any situation...they fill your brain with their opinion without giving you any gaps to to think about it until you agree with them...if people start to manipulate you with their stand...identify the purpose of why they are actually doing so...if you already know the bitter truth....simple...then no matter what they say...you will be not manipulated at any cost...


Blames

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They blame you even if it's their mistake...even if the realize they did it wrong...they still blame you...they don't hesitate to find fault on you...repeatedly..they always wanna be the right there...
people forgive and forget...it's a part of any relationships...but if it's toxic...the dig up your pasts...they bring up those stories to pull you down and shut you up...then you already know how toxic are they...no on has any rights to talk about anyone's past to judge them...



Spaces

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These kinda people will never give you space...they always want you...so that their emotional and physical needs be met...they will never let you to do anything you personally love to do or your responsibilities peacefully....they will force you to give them the time...they refuse to understand...they will take hold of all your decision making..even if it in a minor decision...so desperate that they wanna rule over you...until you become a slave...you lose your freedom there...they become more dominant...



Emotional Advantages

Abusive Relationship on Behance

yup ...if they cant get things right in their way...they will emotionally blackmail you..it is also a form of an emotional abuse...they use fear and guilt to manipulate you...simple as toxic people blackmail that they will run over a cliff if you never agree with their opinions...wants or needs....it's like a child crying when they parents didn't wanna get them their favorite toy...okay this is not cute...matured people won't do that...just be aware of any of these emotional blackmails...try not to get yourself involve in these type of blackmails...it will affect your mental health widely...


soooooooooooo yeah...
Forgive them but don't fall in their trap...
know what is best for you...
if you feel that you are toxic towards certain people...
change...
if you feel that you are being gamed by a toxic person...
avoid yourself....
















Comments

  1. Praise KumarJuly 24, 2020 at 11:01 PM

    Thank you for the encouraging words.
    Indeed we need to reject every toxic people from our lives.

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